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Triggers are doorways
Shadow in relationship
is your Teacher

It reveals the places in yourself where you are blocked or stuck in loops that aren’t serving you or your partner.

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Complaining. Blaming. Running Away. Withdrawing. Projecting. Manipulating. Shaming. Guilting. Separating....
 
You have the opportunity to experience the challenges of a relationship
as the GIFT.
The Gift to TRANSFORM
to help you become the best partner,
the best lover,
& the best version of yourself...
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Triggers are doorways
Shadow in relationship
is your Teacher

It reveals the places in yourself where you are blocked or stuck in loops that aren’t serving you or your partner.

newimageforshdaow.jpg
Complaining. Blaming. Running Away. Withdrawing. Projecting. Manipulating. Shaming. Guilting. Separating....
You have the opportunity to experience the challenges of a relationship
as the GIFT
The gift to TRANSFORM
to help you become the best partner,
the best lover,
& the best version of yourself...

HEY LOVERS...

Trigger work has been the most foundational element to our union.

 

It's our deepest study together and one of our favorite subjects to teach others, as time and time again we see it make a profound

shift in everyone who practices.

Traveling together. Creating a business together. Both being fiery passionate people... let's just say the external triggers aren't shy here. And we study them, unfold them, extract them from others, and create tools for them.

Without everything in this bundle, we'd probably be on some other crazy planet right now... trying to still make sense of the complexities of love... or we'd be long gone.

We are both so grateful for the understanding of trigger work for our relationship and our profound awakening to love, intimacy, and understanding.


And now we pass it on to you. 

 

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answering your burning Questions...
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  • How do I distinguish between a trigger and an emotional response to a my boundaries?
     
  • What do I do when my partner is triggered by my trigger- and then we're both triggered at the same time? 
     
  • How do I stay neutral when triggered?
     
  • How do I consciously communicate when I feel upset?
     
  • How do I release jealousy triggers?
  • How can work with shadow to understand myself?
     
  • How can I uncover my shadow and core wounds and heal them so I don't bring them into my relationship?
     
  • How can I best reconnect to my partner after a trigger? 
     
  • Is there something I can practice when my partner is triggered... to help them out of it?
     
  • How do I know if seeing flaws in my partner is the truth of their shadow or my own shadow?
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Imagine what life would be like if every trigger became playful game to understand yourself.

 

No more victimizing.

 

No more story making. No more blaming and shaming.

 

Only playing with shadow and growing together...

Imagine feeling sovereign, powerful, and self loving… while on the same team as the one you choose. 

Imagine what your relationship looks like when you walk confidently into the devotion of easy and hard.

Imagine who you get to be in the world when shadow seduces your soul into an expanded heart.

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TRIGGER PLAY allows you to specifically understand the different tools, approaches, and ways of exchange in challenging relationship dynamics & learn advance techniques to work with shadow to evolve and deepen in your heart.
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  • A newly felt CALM in old patterns.

  • Understanding for whats behind each and every one your triggers in partnership...we are not kidding...all of them

  • Understanding where your partner is coming from, so you can be less on the defense

  • The ability to address the moment at heart and soul level connection

  • The skill to remain neutral and operating from your center

  • You'll be able to detect whether you are in projection, misunderstanding, or operating from a wound... and then how to work with it.

  • The fastest way to shift a trigger loop

  • How to completely reframe your relationship so that triggers are met with spiritual awareness, maturity, and s deeper lens of love

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EACH LESSON UPGRADE:

  • 15 + video/audio codes between 5 and 30 minutes in length

  • contains a carefully sequenced set of codes + techniques where you are learning and practicing each new skill as you grow.

  • contains individual and partnered quest activities for you to embody each code.  

  • each loaded with powerful perspective on challenges in union and using them to create breakthroughs in love

LIFETIME ACCESS

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SEEING YOURSELF

These tools upgrade & prepare you.

Become fully aware of yourself & all the patterns of your triggers in relationship.

  • Trigger Deep Dive

  • Revealing your Triggers

  • Trigger Variables

  • Your Trigger Reactions

  • Taking Ownership

  • The Quality of your experience

  • Shifting your entire Paradym in Perceived Conflict

HEAT OF THE MOMENT

Embody advanced techniques in the heat of the moment.​

Learn to experience triggered moments with mental, emotional, & spiritual mastery.  Every conflict becomes a conscious playground for deep awakening to love. 

  • Trigger Blueprinting

  • Seeing all the Trigger Pathways

  • Projection

  • Holding the Higher Vibration

  • Deep Listening & Receiving

  • Holding Center & Neutrality

  • Awakening in the moment

  • From Suffering to Ecstasy 

DEEP WORK

These upgrades and tools focus on the post work you can do to deeply unpack your experience and know yourself through them.

  • Shadowwork

  • Unpacking your experience

  • Unpacking core wounding

  • Unfold your illusions

  • Reveal your projections

  • Dismantle broken belief systems

THE HIGHER WAY

Here you learn to design new realities with your partner with each every triggered moment. 

  • Designing new pathways together

  • Evolve each pattern of conflict into a higher vibration

  • Learn to design your own advanced strategies in trigger alchemy

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Your Price

 

ONE TIME

INVESTMENT

$497
 

(Content delivered straight

to your inbox)

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PM ASHAE SUNDARA on FACEBOOK IF YOU HAVE QUESTIONS

   

for SINGLES who ARE.. 
 

... not currently in a relationship but want to work with triggers with family members, lovers, and friends. 

 

You desire to upgrade the potential of all future relationships into a more deeply conscious, awake, and fulfilling experience... where challenges become games to expand.

You will train your mind and spirit to operate within shadow reflection, so you can be fully conscious and aware of your unfolding love nature with new partners.

 

You will leave with an extensive list of tools and new embodied ways for seeing how your shadows are reflected in those that you attract... and as you learn to work with these tools, you will begin to attract higher vibrational love alchemies and partners.


for COUPLES w/ ONE PARTNER (YOU)  leading + diving in yourself... 

You are in a relationship and you are about to explode with desire to GO DEEPER.

 

You are starting to see the dynamics at play in your relationship, but you don't know how to explore healing and alignment... especially because it seems that your partner isn't as excited about relationship dynamics as you are.

 

The ShadowPlay experience is deeply attractive to you and you know its right for this stage of your growth, however your partner is not fully committed to participate in the experience. 

 

For those of you who take the course in this way, this is a process of stepping into your power, taking ownership, deeply upgrading yourself... and then very naturally expanding and affecting the health and vibrancy of the relationship through you own personal process. Yes, you will be felt. And it could be all your partner needs to get on the bandwagon and play...


 


for COUPLES doing it TOGETHER, fully

You and your beloved are going through the material and transforming together. 

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