(aka how to stop attracting emotionally abusive men + instead fall in love with the one that ~you know~ is the one) ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
Here is the thing…
When you are connected to your pussy, when you can hear her and move with her and pleasure her and love her… you are re-claiming your power; you are balancing the masculine energies inside of your system that tell you to follow the “relationship rules” and you are releasing the ties to the patriarchal system of do this and that without contacting the heart… and you are returning to your juicy feminine succulence that is so INTUITIVE and so raw and real and ALIGNED WITH YOURSELF that you can only magnetize that same level of
> respect > worship + > devotion from a man. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ When you are disconnected from your pussy, you are disconnected from your pleasure and your pleasure is your COMPASS… to CREATE the life and love that you want. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ When you are disconnected from your pussy, you are disconnected from your power and your power is your BOUNDARIES… to STAND BY the life and love that you want. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Heightened sensuality in your body tells you everything you need to know about what is a yes and what is a no… while dating, or in a 1 month to 20 year relationship. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ The alignment never ends, the emotional abuse can continue, until you LEARN to stand IN your powerful pleasured sense of Self. So… instead of focusing on… •fixing him or •finding the right person or •getting him to change his behaviors if you want the relationship or relationship-to-be to flow… instead.. focus on your own feminine radiance.. focus on pleasure in your body.. focus on swaying your hips as they are meant to with pleasure and sexy flow. From this space, you are empowered to hear more of the true voice and the true shifts that must happen in your love. Emotionally abusive men are attracted to women who are not fully in their power because we are mirrors, and wounds attract wounds and YES not being in your sexual and emotional and feminine and personal power IS a wound; it is your lack of wholeness within. It doesn’t make abuse RIGHT… it doesn’t give a partner a pass for being an asshole.. but it does put you into the DRIVER SEAT and remind you that its all your work.. and that your work is inside of yourself… and that it is your personal power and connection to yourself that can take the emotional abuse out of the man. You won’t need to ask if “he’s the right one for me” when he comes along, at some point on the journey and with this person, let all of that go, and feel. Connect to the part of you, the feminine spirit that already knows… and trust.