Who are you and your partner, together?
When your energy meets... what kind of alchemical creation do you get?
That’s your “us.”
The third entity in relationship.
The sum of its two parts.
Not going to lie, people generally suck at relationships.
I know I did, until I sought to humble myself and LEARN.
One of the things you might forget is that there is more than you and him or you and her.
There is the beingness of your togetherness.
A potion, not to be reckoned with.
A force of nature that is the GOLD in love.
This “us” is something you want to get to know... nurture... feed.
Most people think to do something nice + give to their partner... but are you feeding your creation of you?? The two of you together? Who you are for the world?
When you acknowledge the third entity, you are able to be more objective and loving when conflict and triggers arise.
It’s easy to get wrapped up in your own perspective, but if you keep your “us” on the forefront of your mind, you’ll be able to make it through with WAY more ease.
Instead of only believing in your view of love and your partner as a separate, start viewing your togetherness as a whole... feeding it.. supporting it... seeing it for the MAGICK that it is.
Try picking a few words that describe your “us” and write them here. (PS: pick words that describe its essence in its highest embodiment!)
Ours? Joyful. Sexy. Conscious.