We were holding each other in bed. I got the intuition to start whispering affirmations into his ear. Instead of saying “you are” I said... “we are,”... and affirmations from there. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ I went until I felt complete and then he took a turn. “We are constantly sourced. We are receiving all that we need. We are, we are, we are....” ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ It was an incredible feeling to marinate in, after we finished. Powerful. Together. Intimate. Connected. Positive. Awake. Creative. Alive. Unified. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ What this simple shift in affirmation did was illuminate the real power of UNION. For manifestation. For healing. For co-creating life... For... awakening, for ascension. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ You see... if you’re too focused on independence.. you are slightly self absorbed.. and you are not entering the depths and profundity of what union can really be. (This was a hard one for me and can be a hard one for any woman who has reclaimed her power or a man who’s sourcing outside of himself to feel all that he is. Resonate?) ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ The independence you crave is really uniqueness. It's sovereignty. It's being able to take care of, own, and be your own person. Don't give that up. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Just do it in a unified field of love. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Remember::: sovereignty is not independence. You can be sovereign and whole, and interdependent at the same time. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ A certain independence needs to die, in relationship to the beloved. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ And when it does, and when union is honored... everything heals + manifests at DOUBLE the rate. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ YEP.... ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ If you want that kind of power, intimacy, and spiritual connection in your relationship too... get your butt in Quantum Love. ( love-codes.com/quantumlove ) ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ PS: all powerful intimate relationships need to understand this balance of independence, sovereignty, and unity if they want to be next level in their love. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ There’s a reason it’s called union.