Why You Should be Thoroughly Healing Relationship Injury

THOROUGHLY HEALING RELATIONSHIP INJURY.

Going deep within the wound.

Not leaving any last soldier of separation behind.

Because when shit hits the fan, and theres some trauma to process or to move through, even when you do it all and move on..

little bits of it can linger...

creating low levels of separation in the field tearing at both of your hearts.

This usually goes un-detected.

You must be a subconscious stalker of your own mind to catch where there is a lack of integration, a piece of you whom still feels hurt and needing to be held.

Over a few months ago, Lucien + I had an intense evening... where both of us experienced levels of pain.

The story of what happened, not important.

What is is this: we thought we had moved through all the energies and healed... but over time it was clear that there was a last bit of unconditionally loving work, communication from the heart, and energetic clearing to do.

It’s okay to go back to explore what still needs processing.

It’s okay to say, “Look.. I know we let this go... but part of me is still holding on.”

Simply being open with the injury... and allowing your partner to see you in that space, is healing in itself.

My love invoked a space of unconditional light and healing... called in our higher selves to be present with us.. and he spoke what was still on his heart.

Then, I did the same.

What I found.. and I think I can speak for us both.. is that nothing unresolved passes.

I had in my consciousness for a few days... “It’ll just pass in time.” But... no.

Things do heal with time, but only if they are completely resolved in your consciousness.

The heart is a delicate one, and we must care and tend to it with the most amount of consciousness and compassion that we can.

And when the resolution arrives... aka all parties feel seen, heard, held, and loved through what was painful... it’s party time!!! ;-)

The amount of connection, intimacy, + closeness that piecing together those last pieces and speaking them into the field can do for you is profound.