You Were Never Meant to "Lose Yourself" Through Love

You deserve a love where you are becoming more of who you are.

No more of this “I lost myself in our relationship" bullshit. ⠀

⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ You get to wake up in the morning and go… “Is this really my life?” ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ You get to wake up and go… “I love who I am alone, and I love who I am in this love, and I love who I am becoming every single day.” ⠀⠀⠀⠀

⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ You get to wake up turned on and tapped in to Source and excited to live your life on purpose beside someone you’d rather not live without- not because you’re emotionally entrapped, but because your life is ENHANCED and ENLIVENED side by side.

A daily choice to collaborate in life and love. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Please don’t tell yourself that you being stuck and stagnant is okay because its some intense twin flame astrological love. ⠀⠀

⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ (We’ve all been there.) ⠀⠀

⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ I totally allowed myself to “get lost” and create distance from my purpose in the world in relationships from the past. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀

Part of why we stray from our purpose and true path when we’re with certain people is because we know subconsciously that if we were in alignment with our purpose… we probably wouldn’t be in said love! ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀

⠀⠀ K. No. Become. Your. Best. Self. Don’t let the relationship stop you. What do you need to do? ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ It’s not necessarily the person that needs to go- although often times it is… ⠀

⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ It’s usually the laziness around DOING THE WORK. Looking at what's not matching up to the highest for you both.

⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Don’t settle. Don’t bypass.

Don’t tell yourself love is just hard and intense and thats just the way it is. ⠀

⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ If you’re not becoming a higher version of yourself in your relationship, RED FREAKING FLAG! ⠀⠀⠀⠀