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ecstasy and orgasm are of the heart

This is what nobody told you about epic orgasm and insane ecstasy. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ They are of the heart. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ When your heart is closed to yourself or your lover, so is your ability to reach the heights of pleasure and raptured experience into the divine.

Your pussy opens when your heart opens. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Most of our hearts are closed. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ It takes practice to stay open and to continue opening. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ To self. To lover. To life itself. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Every woman who has taken my breast massage intensive knows that her sense of sensuality, power, pleasure, desire, and relaxation is from and through her heart.

...And that it takes conscious intent to remove the layers that get stacked on top. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ The divine feminine rising is the return (for us all) into the heart. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ So... if you you want epic orgasm + insane ecstasy... you need emotional intelligence and the communication skills to get your hearts needs met.

That's what we teach in Quantum Love.

(aka how to stop attracting emotionally abusive men + instead fall in love with the one that ~you know~ is the one) ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀

Here is the thing… 

When you are connected to your pussy, when you can hear her and move with her and pleasure her and love her…  you are re-claiming your power; you are balancing the masculine energies inside of your system that tell you to follow the “relationship rules” and you are releasing the ties to the patriarchal system of do this and that without contacting the heart… and you are returning to your juicy feminine succulence  that is so INTUITIVE and so raw and real and  ALIGNED WITH YOURSELF that you can only magnetize that same level of

> respect > worship + > devotion from a man. ⠀

⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ When you are disconnected from your pussy, you are disconnected from your pleasure  and your pleasure is your COMPASS…  to CREATE the life and love that you want. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ When you are disconnected from your pussy,  you are disconnected from your power  and your power is your BOUNDARIES…  to STAND BY the life and love that you want. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Heightened sensuality in your body tells you everything you need to know about what is a yes and what is a no… while dating, or in a 1 month to 20 year relationship. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ The alignment never ends, the emotional abuse can continue, until you LEARN  to stand IN your powerful pleasured sense of Self.  So… instead of focusing on… •fixing him or •finding the right person or •getting him to change his behaviors if you want the relationship or relationship-to-be to flow…  instead.. focus on your own feminine radiance.. focus on pleasure in your body.. focus on swaying your hips as they are meant to with pleasure and sexy flow. From this space, you are empowered to hear more of the true voice and the true shifts that must happen in your love. Emotionally abusive men are attracted to women who are not fully in their power  because we are mirrors, and wounds attract wounds  and YES not being in your sexual and emotional and feminine and personal power  IS a wound; it is your lack of wholeness within. It doesn’t make abuse RIGHT… it doesn’t give a partner a pass for being an asshole.. but it does put you into the DRIVER SEAT and remind you that its all your work.. and that your work is inside of yourself… and that it is your personal power and connection to yourself that can take the emotional abuse out of the man. You won’t need to ask if “he’s the right one for me”  when he comes along,  at some point on the journey and with this person, let all of that go,  and feel. Connect to the part of you, the feminine spirit  that already knows… and trust.

dont lose yourself through love become your higher self

You deserve a love where you are becoming more of who you are.

No more of this “I lost myself in our relationship" bullshit. ⠀

⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ You get to wake up in the morning and go… “Is this really my life?” ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ You get to wake up and go… “I love who I am alone, and I love who I am in this love, and I love who I am becoming every single day.” ⠀⠀⠀⠀

⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ You get to wake up turned on and tapped in to Source and excited to live your life on purpose beside someone you’d rather not live without- not because you’re emotionally entrapped, but because your life is ENHANCED and ENLIVENED side by side.

A daily choice to collaborate in life and love. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Please don’t tell yourself that you being stuck and stagnant is okay because its some intense twin flame astrological love. ⠀⠀

⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ (We’ve all been there.) ⠀⠀

⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ I totally allowed myself to “get lost” and create distance from my purpose in the world in relationships from the past. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀

Part of why we stray from our purpose and true path when we’re with certain people is because we know subconsciously that if we were in alignment with our purpose… we probably wouldn’t be in said love! ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀

⠀⠀ K. No. Become. Your. Best. Self. Don’t let the relationship stop you. What do you need to do? ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ It’s not necessarily the person that needs to go- although often times it is… ⠀

⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ It’s usually the laziness around DOING THE WORK. Looking at what's not matching up to the highest for you both.

⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Don’t settle. Don’t bypass.

Don’t tell yourself love is just hard and intense and thats just the way it is. ⠀

⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ If you’re not becoming a higher version of yourself in your relationship, RED FREAKING FLAG! ⠀⠀⠀⠀

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